I enjoy public speaking. Lots of people don’t, but it’s
something I’ve always liked to do. I’m sure there are lots of opinions as to
how well I do it, but the fact remains, it’s something I really like. I’m lucky
to have a job that allows and even requires me to do it. I sometimes speak at
conferences, I often get to introduce other speakers, and I regularly make
sales presentations.
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Something tells me that this guy likes public speaking too. |
During the recent US Presidential debates I heard that they
kept the debate room at somewhere around 65 degrees. That immediately set me to
wondering exactly why they’d want to do that. I can’t imagine that they’d want
to keep it chilly to keep people from falling asleep, or to ensure that people
were paying attention…it’s the President of the United States, after all. Then
Wolf Blitzer cleared it all up for me, as he often does…it’s to keep them from
sweating. Sweating is unpleasant. Especially when you’re in front of a bunch of
people. Ask Richard Nixon. Apparently he lost the very first televised debate to Kennedy as a result of sweat.
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Tricky Dicky had to wipe sweat off his upper lip. They say it cost him the debate. |
A few years ago, I went Vancouver for a finalist
presentation. We were a team of four, and when we arrived, they led us to a
room that was built to hold about ten people. There were already 16 people in
this room, and we just made it worse. The ceiling was low, and the temperature
was already hot enough to melt chocolate. As I stood up to speak, in a room so
crowded I couldn’t even move six inches to my right or left, I put my head
right into a pot light. I wore that light like a hat. My head felt like it was on fire. I could
immediately feel the sweat beading up on my forehead, and worse, I could feel
it start to run down my cheek and down the bridge of my nose.
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This is how I felt. Except way, way less cool. |
Just when I thought things couldn’t get any worse, I noticed
that one of our guys had put his head back in his chair, and he was sound
asleep. Just as a drop of sweat fell from the tip of my nose and splatted on the table like
a rock splats into a calm lake, Rip Van Winkle woke up with such a jolt that the entire room turned to
see him emerge from slumberland. Needless to say, we didn’t win the business.
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When your sweat hits the table like a pebble hits a pond, it's a good sign that you're not going to win. |
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I was in Vancouver again recently to introduce a new product. We were going in to visit a customer who had
brought about 20 people together to hear our presentation. The room was again extremely
toasty, and from the moment I stood up, I started to melt. The more I talked,
the worse it got. At one point, the customer, thinking that I was half way to a
heart attack, stopped the presentation and dispatched someone for water. As I
was dealing with the embarrassment of that, I took three steps to the right and
the temperature dropped about 20 degrees. Turns out I had been standing in the exact
direct line of the heat exhaust from the projector that was mounted about one foot directly
over my head. I spent the rest of the presentation moving around, away from the
heat, and we ended the presentation without the need for an ambulance, or a
defibrillator.
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I brought my laptop and my projector. I did not bring my defibrillator. |
Finally, again in Vancouver (I’m thinking there’s
something about Vancouver), I was asked to introduce a conference speaker. It was Alan Fine, and he’s an excellent speaker with a really cool message. The conference provided me with his bio, and I spoke to him in
advance to get a better sense of how to introduce him. As I walked into the
room, not only did I discover that they were recording the whole thing, but that they had they brought in a huge number of extra lights. It felt like
a movie set. As I stood there in front of the room, under these crazy hot
lights, you guessed it, I started to melt. I felt like a freaking Big Mac
sitting under the heat lamp. It was horrible. I was so fixated on the sweating, I lost complete control of my ability to form sentences. It felt
like an eternity up there, and to his credit, Alan Fine just sat there,
smiling, as I massacred his introduction.
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Those freaking lights are bloody hot. |
The topic of Alan’s presentation? Dealing
with Performance Anxiety. I swear to God. Not my best day.
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Alan Fine. Excellent speaker. And a gentleman. |
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